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Join us for Sharing Hope.

A free monthly virtual support group for mothers who have experienced pregnancy or infant loss — wherever you are in New Mexico, and whether your loss was three weeks ago or thirty years ago.

Who this is for

A small circle of mothers, sitting with one another.

Sharing Hope is for any mother carrying the grief of pregnancy or infant loss — miscarriage, stillbirth, infant death, ending a wanted pregnancy, infertility, or loss through any path to parenthood. You do not need to be in crisis to come. You do not need to have words ready. You only need to want to not sit with this alone.

We cap each session at nine participants so the circle stays small enough for everyone's grief to have room. There is no cost. There is no requirement to share. You can keep your camera off and your name to a first name only.

What to expect

One hour, once a month, on Zoom.

Sharing Hope meets the first Thursday of every month from 6:00 to 7:00 PM Mountain Time. The session is facilitated by our founder, Susan Aguayo, who serves as Postpartum Support International's New Mexico Coordinator and lost her own daughter Kassy in 2015.

Susan opens the circle, sets shared agreements about confidentiality and consent, and then lets the conversation breathe. Some sessions are quiet. Some are full of stories. You can listen the whole hour if that is what you need, or you can speak when something rises up. Sessions are in English; Spanish-language support is available — let us know when you sign up.

A quiet armchair in soft side-light

How to join

Three quiet steps, at your pace.

01

A short intake call

Reach out by phone or email and we will set up a confidential intake conversation — usually about fifteen minutes — so we can hear what you are carrying and answer your questions.

Start the intake
02

Your first session

We send the Zoom link the morning of the meeting. Come on your phone or a laptop, from wherever feels safe. You can keep your camera off and listen for as long as you need.

03

A two-week follow-up

About two weeks after your first session, Susan checks in personally — by call or text — to see how you are doing and to make sure you have any referrals you need.

Upcoming sessions · 2026

First Thursday of every month, 6:00–7:00 PM MT.

  • Thursday, June 4 6:00 PM MT
  • Thursday, July 2 6:00 PM MT
  • Thursday, August 6 6:00 PM MT
  • Thursday, September 3 6:00 PM MT
  • Thursday, October 1 6:00 PM MT
  • Thursday, November 5 6:00 PM MT
  • Thursday, December 3 6:00 PM MT

Sign up once and you are welcome at any session, every month, for as long as you need this circle.

Questions, gently answered

Before you sign up.

Is it really free?

Yes. Sharing Hope is free of charge — and so is every other program we run. Kassy's Kause is an IRS-recognized 501(c)(3) educational organization (EIN 47-5530960) funded by donations and grants, not fees.

Who facilitates the group?

Susan Aguayo, our founder. Susan is Postpartum Support International's New Mexico Coordinator and a stakeholder in UNM Hospital's perinatal program. She founded Kassy's Kause after the loss of her daughter Kassy in 2015 — so the circle is held by someone who has carried this herself.

Is there a religious framing?

No. Sharing Hope is not faith-based. We welcome mothers of every spiritual tradition and of none. If faith is part of how you grieve, you are welcome to bring it into the circle; if it is not, the conversation will not require it of you.

Can I attend if my loss was years ago?

Yes — please come. We have members whose losses were last month and members whose losses were thirty years ago. Grief does not have a statute of limitations, and you do not have to justify being here.

Do partners or family members join?

Sharing Hope is held as a circle for mothers specifically — that intimacy is part of what makes it work. If you are a partner, parent, or friend looking for support, please reach out and we will connect you to resources that fit.

Is Spanish-language support available?

Sí. We offer bilingual intake and Spanish-language sessions on request — please let us know when you reach out so we can match you with the right session and facilitator.

What if I sign up and can't come that night?

That is okay. The group meets every month, year after year. Come when you can. You do not need to explain why a session is too hard, and no one will follow up to ask where you were.

I am grateful for your site because it is giving me resources to help me understand I am not alone.
— Lisa, New Mexico
Reaching out for help was the best thing for me — and although most days are better, I still have moments where I have to remind myself I'm fine and doing the best I can.
— Stefanie, New Mexico

We note that this page uses the words "woman" and "mother." This is not intended to be exclusionary — we welcome anyone who carries the grief of pregnancy or infant loss, of every gender and family configuration. Please reach out and we will find the right circle for you.

You are not alone.
You are heard.
You are held.

Sign up for Sharing Hope

Sign-up takes about five minutes. Everything you share with us is confidential.

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